Episode 52 - Kimberly Russell: So Fill Your Heart With What's Important And Be Done With The Rest

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A popular question I get nowadays is how do you find your guests? In the beginning I started with the people around me who I thought were very passionate people and as time went I started getting leads from friends and family on other possible guests. This weeks guest, Kimberly Russell, was brought to my attention from a friend of mine who happens to be a podcast listener. I’m glad I looked into this lead because she has quite the story to tell.

 

Kimberly Russell grew up in Charlestown, MA where she watched her father work two jobs and one of the first lessons he taught her was that if you worked hard you could accomplish anything in life. What was one of the biggest struggles during her childhood was watching her older brother battle the awful and terrible heroin addiction that so many are affected by. Fortunately for their family he was able to kick it, turn his life around and now helps other recovering addicts.

When it came time for college, Kimberly lasted two years before giving up as she hated it. Instead, she enrolled in Catherine Hinds Institute of Esthetics for beauty school and felt much more at ease. What was supposed to be only a one year program got stretched to two after she had to take of leave of absence to deal with depression, generalized anxiety, social anxiety and panic disorders. For her this was a blessing. A wake up call that so many other people in this world battle their own issues and instead of feeling sorry for herself she kicked it to the side and rose high confident in who she was. Makeup became an outlet for her to express her emotions and what was the beginning of her now career.

After launching her website earlier this year she got tremendous positive feedback from people that were watching what she was doing and she continued to build her business from the ground up. For her it has nothing to do with the money but more so seeing the smile on her clients faces as she assists them on some of the most important days of their life.

I think one of the main takeaways from this episode is so fill your heart with what’s important and be done with the rest. As we get older and mature, we begin to realize how little time we actually have on this earth and need to make the best of it. With that being said, no time can be wasted around people that do not bring good energy around or who question what we’’re doing. We must find what we love, who we love and continue to fill our world with only those things.

Podcast Outline (Time Markers For Audio Version)

  • Who is Kimberly Russell today and how young is she?

    • 22 years young makeup artist

  • Grew up in Charlestown, MA

    • Has a brother and a sister who are both older than her

    • Very close with her family

  • Both parents are very hard workers (4:30)

    • Father always worked two jobs,  MBTA and a cashier at a liquor store to make sure he could give his kids the life he never had

    • Always said if you work hard you’ll get to where you want to be

  • Kimberly’s brother is recently 5 years sober from Heroin (6:05)

    • It has been ncredible to see how much he has changed his life around for the better

    • Takes the struggles that Kim was exposed to at a young age and tries to help others that’re going through something similar

    • It’s always going to get worse before it gets better. Nothing was going to change until her brother wanted it to

  • If Kim could tell her 10 year old self one thing it be to not give up and to keep fighting (11:50)

    • There was a time when she was really down and out and it eventually it got better

  • Currently at Catherine Hinds Institute of Esthetics

    • Tried college for 2 years and hated it so she thought this place would be the easy way out

    • Had to take a leave of absence for a year because of her anxiety (15:00)

  • Kim had been diagnosed with depression, generalized anxiety, social anxiety and panic disorder 

    • One day Kim woke up and realized that there were millions of people around her that were dealing with similar problems and she got tired of feeling bad for herself 

    • Makeup became an outlet for Kim to calm herself down (17:43)

  • When faced with a terrible breakup of a four year relationship, her mother was there to support her 

    • Watching YouTube videos of how to use makeup took her mind off from things

    • People started complimenting her for how beautiful she looked and she kept at it

  • Kim has never felt so confident in her life than she does now 

    • Finding a career that makes you happy but also has an impact on others (27:15)

  • If you go into something looking to make money you’re not going to last 

  • Constantly looking to see what else she can add to her services

    • Always looking for ways to network

  • Tries to see the good in people and doesn’t just base it off of the actions they’re taking (36:22)

    • People act the way they do for a reason and understanding why isn’t always that easy

    • Even with having people leach off of her because of her success she can’t allow herself to let it get to her (40:23)

  • Taking life day by day and just seeing where the passion will take Kim

  • The hardest part about taking the leap to see where makeup would take her was putting herself out there (43:07)

    • Very huge introvert who likes to stay home

    • Once she launched her website people started supporting her and reaching out on how she was inspiring others

  • “So Fill Your Heart With What's Important And Be Done With The Rest” is Kim’s favorite quote (45:28)

    • If you only worry about what is important, you’re going to get so much farther and become happier

    • There is more important things to worry about than the small negative things

  • Someone achieves greatness by working hard

    • You cannot give up when things get tough because they will

    • Starting a business at 22 is stressful

  • If the entire world was tuning in for a lesson by Kim she would talk to people about mental health (50:32)

    • Was scared to admit that she was depressed and surrender to the fact that she needed help

    • Tried therapy at one point but it didn’t help much

    • People think you can just “snap out of it” but it’s not that easy to do (54:30)

  • Ask Bobbbaaaay 1 question

    • If you were not doing the podcast, what would your biggest dream be?

  • Picture frame on the wall 10 years from now, what/who do we see?

    • Surrounded by her family and married with her own family

  • Find Kimberly on Social Media

    • Instagram: @_KimberlyRussel

    • Business Instagram:  @KimberlyRussel_MUA

    • Website: Kimberlyrusselmakeup.com

    • Facebook:Kimberly Russell Makeup

  • What 2-3 pieces of advice would you give to someone trying to find their passion

    • Try and go outside of your comfort zone because it won’t get you anywhere if you stay situated

    • Work hard

    • Keep pushing and it’ll get easier